Sighhhhhhhhhhhhh

Well today was a huge day in my girls lives especially my big one. Gosh I wish time would slow down some. I remember when they were little and the big deal was going to the park. Now today my big one started high school. I thought she'd be nervous but instead she was excited. I thought she'd want someone to be with her at orientation instead she already had figured out the school map and her combination to her locker. I remember the days of blowing bubbles and playing chase. Now it's basketball scrimmages and geometry.

The girls love their new schools... both of them do. I was worried that one or the other would have a hard day or feel alone. But they both found their old friends and formed their own posseys. Kiersten even found old friends from her first school. She actually is thrilled to be at this new school. Both so independent and brave. I know when I was younger I did NOT like changing schools. I am so proud of them and how they were able to so quickly adjust to this whole new adventure.

But today I wish I had some time bottled up when they were little. I miss those days today. I miss them being little and being able to put them both on my lap. It use to be we watched Barney.. now it's football and basketball. I just would like the time to slow down. I feel like I have an hour glass and the sand is quickly draining out. Some many things go thru my mind of things I still need to teach them.. things like checkbooks, and more cooking, or how to take stains out of laundry, stuff that we don't think about.. life stuff. Also right now to them the world is this great big wonderful place. And while they are growing bigger, it's starting to get harder for me to block the shots that the world can throw at them. I'm just beginning to realize that I still have alot to teach them.

Time needs to slow down.

Three Ways to be more productive

I generally think of myself as an extremely productive and difficult-to-distract person, but I’ve recently realized that I’m kidding myself. Sure, I get stuff done, but I procrastinate, waste time, and get distracted often. For all the complaining I do about needing more time in a day I should start by creating more time in a day by wasting less of it. I need to be able to fit 80 hours of life into a 40 hour week!

So here are the three specific things I’ve come up with to be more productive this week — I promise to report back next weekend and let you know how I did:

1. De-activate my “new mail” notifier. Checking email is my biggest time-waster at work, by a long shot. I justify it by thinking that since I work in medical field that does everything online and since most of the people I work with are in different locations, email is essential to my success in getting my job done. All that is true, but it doesn’t mean that I should always keep my email windows open and check new messages as soon as they come in, replying to many that don’t need an ASAP reply. I’ve tried simply limiting the number of times I check email and just closing my email programs, but that didn’t go far enough. So this week I am turning off all of my new email notifications. (Really, I am. Really.)

2. Set defined no-work time zones. One of the biggest downsides of being a super busy person is that I work on things when I get home too thus I can work all the time on something. Outside the few hours a day that I spend being a mommy, a wife I am usually attached to my computer, or my Blackberry working on something for someone somewhere. Some of this is necessary — but some of this is not. Knowing that I can do some of my stuff at sometimes makes me less disciplined during the day. I complain about not having enough time, but I think I might have too much time to work. This week I am setting specific start and end times to my work days, every day. (Yes, my dear husband, this means that I might actually look at you when we talk rather than nod in half-understanding as I type away.)

3. Start the day by getting 3 annoying things from my to-do list done. I think being productive has a lot to do with feeling productive. I know when I get something done that I’m dreading, I feel completely awesome and energized. So this week I am going to tap into my inner Energizer Bunny every morning and start the day by removing the dreaded, the time-consuming, the this-is-worse-than-the-dentist stuff from my to-do list. You know what a great stress relief it is to write something on your to-do list and cross it off? This is that, but spiked with an energy drink. Or so I think.

What are your best tips for being more productive?